Galen Harkness • April 6, 2026
Pick a Side
Most players want to be good.
Few actually decide to do what it takes.
Every Gym Has This
Two types of players.
You’ve seen it.
You might even know which one you are.
Side 1 — The Complainers
They talk about:
- The refs
- Their playing time
- Missed shots
- Bad courts
- Coaches
There’s always something.
And to be fair… some of it is real.
But none of it helps them get better.
Side 2 — The Workers
They’re different.
They:
- Stay after
- Get extra shots
- Ask questions
- Listen to coaching
- Fix mistakes
They don’t ignore problems.
They attack them.
Same Gym. Same Situation.
Different results.
That’s the part most players miss.
You don’t need a better team.
You don’t need a better coach.
You don’t need perfect conditions.
You need a better response.
What This Looks Like
Bad call?
Complain… or sprint back.
Missed shots?
Blame it… or fix your feet and get reps tomorrow.
Not playing much?
Get frustrated… or earn trust in practice.
Slippery court?
Make excuses… or adjust and play stronger.
Here’s The Truth
Your future as a player is decided early.
Not by talent.
By how you respond.
The Players Who Improve
They walk into the gym already decided:
“I’m going to figure this out.”
So when things go wrong…
They don’t look around.
They go to work.
The Players Who Stay The Same
They walk in thinking:
“This isn’t fair.”
And every bad call…
Every missed shot…
Every tough moment…
Just proves them right.
That’s The Difference
Same gym.
Same opportunities.
Different mindset.
Different outcome.
What We See At EYG
The players who improve the most aren’t always the most talented.
They’re the ones who:
- Take coaching
- Stay consistent
- Work when it’s hard
- Show up ready
They pick the right side.
Over and over again.
The Question
Next practice.
Next game.
Next workout.
Which side are you on?
Because that decision shows up in your results.
Every player compares. They compare stats. They compare teams. They compare offers. They compare playing time. They compare skill level. And most of the time… They compare at the worst possible moment. A player sees someone score 25. Another makes varsity early. Someone gets attention online. Someone gets recruited first. Suddenly it feels like you are behind. But here is the truth most players don’t want to hear. They are not ahead. They are just further along their path. Basketball development is not a race. It is a long process that compounds over time. Some players grow early. Some players grow later. Some players get opportunities early. Some players earn them through years of work. The scoreboard you see right now is only a snapshot. It does not predict who you will become. What actually determines your future is much simpler. Work. Skill is not given. Confidence is not given. Game performance is not given. They are built. Through training. Through repetition. Through failure. Through consistency. Through time. Too many players spend their energy watching others. The best players spend their energy building themselves. You cannot control another player’s timeline. You cannot control another player’s opportunity. But you can control: How often you train. How focused you are when you train. How you respond to mistakes. How consistent you stay. How long you are willing to commit to improvement. Most players want results. Few players are willing to live in the process long enough to earn them. Comparison steals joy. But more importantly, comparison steals focus. And when focus disappears, development stops. The players who improve the most are not always the most talented. They are the most consistent. They show up when others don’t. They work when others watch. They stay patient when others quit. So instead of asking: “Why are they ahead?” Ask: “What am I willing to do to improve?” Then go to work. If you are a player who is ready to train with purpose, EYG Basketball provides structured, focused training designed to help you improve the skills that matter most in real games. Learn more at: 👉 www.eygbball.com
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